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Yoga Poses and Stretches for a Strong Back and Core

2022-02-16
A woman leans forward over her mat in lotus pose.

I’ve had lower back issues ever since I started working my first office job. I finally had to start doing something about it when I realized I was not even able to go to work.

So I went to a physical therapist and learned the first core exercises that have become a staple in my daily core routine: standing hip flexor stretch, tabletop with double knee lift, prone lateral pulldown, and dead bug.

Over the last decade and a half, I’ve added some yoga poses and other stretches to keep my core strong and consequently my back too. This post lists those exercises along with videos for you to learn how to do them yourself.

The order the exercises are presented is the order I do them—each exercise or pose flows into the next once you’ve got a handle on them. So get into some comfortable clothes, roll out your mat, and get started!

Disclaimer: I am not a physician or physical therapist/trainer. I’m not qualified or trained to give medical advice. The exercises I’m about to recommend are just the ones I use every day. Do not assume they will all work for you and that you are ready for them. If you are having back pain, see a medical doctor before starting these exercises.

1. Standing Hip Flexor Stretch

My most frequently used stretch that I find myself doing multiple times a day.

2. Neck and Shoulder Rolls

You can easily do these at your desk too.

3. Half Moon Stretch

This stretch is not the same as the half moon yoga pose, which is much more challenging.

4. Triangle

Takes a bit of balance and is very bendy.

5. Tree

This takes a lot of balance. I find I’m much more successful at the tree pose when I’ve been awake and moving around for a while.

6. Chair

Keep the feet together to strengthen your inner thighs.

7. Standing Forward Bend

Bend down only as far as you can go without hurting yourself to build up flexibility over time.

8. Downward Dog

Oh, the calf muscles will thank you!

9. Tabletop With Double Knee Lift

This one is my go-to whenever I’m having back pain throughout the day.

10. Kneeling Lunge

Your legs, hips, and butt get a nice stretch and strengthen here.

11. Balancing Cat

Learn some simple balancing here.

12. Locust

This one really engages the lower back.

13. Prone Lateral Pulldown

I used to hate this one, but it’s the best one for strengthening your lower back.

14. Plank

If you’re not shaking, you’re not doing this one right. Engage the core and your abs!

15. Child

My favorite resting pose that also stretches the ankles.

16. Reclining Spinal Twist

Get some more lower back stretching with this one.

17. Eye of the Needle

This is my absolute favorite stretch! My butt loves this one!

18. Dead Bug

Another go-to when I’m having back pain throughout the day.

19. Bound Angle

No need to bend forward if you’re not ready for that part yet.

I hope these poses, exercises, and stretches come in handy for you. Remember: You don’t have to do them all and you can always add your own to the mix or change up the order as it works for you.

Motivation and Accountability: Four Steps to Getting Regular Exercise

2022-02-02
A woman is in a running start position along a track. She grimaces with determination.
Image by Ryan McGuire from Pixabay 

Motivation and accountability. We hear these two loaded words thrown around regularly about the first of every year. It’s easy to just say it and expect everyone to agree. People who don’t want to be judged poorly will nod. And then they’ll go about their regular routine anyway.

This year I decided to be proactive, though. I wanted to get myself in shape, but I had been having trouble finding the right trigger, spark, fire, prompt, stimulus … or motivation, perhaps? The final kindling came when I realized I had gained 10 pounds in the last two years.

Step 1: Recognize

Two socked feet stand on a scale to measure body weight.
Photo by Andres Ayrton from Pexels

I’ve always managed to maintain my weight within about a four-pound range, so 10 pounds was a rude awakening for me. And I knew that if I didn’t do something fast, that number would keep on climbing.

Plus, my clothes were no longer fitting the way I liked them to. Even though I was buying new clothes in the same size I have for years, they just weren’t going on as easily as they should.

I feel a bit sad that something so vain helped me recognize this final motivation, but there you have it. Perhaps the last grain of social anxiety from my youth can be put to good use here. I’ve heard stress can be channeled into positive goals anyway.

Step 2: Begin

An empty road with one white stripe down the middle. Heavy fog appears in the distance between guard rails.
Photo by Markus Spiske from Pexels

The past year was a tough one for me both personally and professionally. But it also ended with some real accomplishments on both levels as well. I took a part-time job that came with full benefits, and I had been able to drop a couple unpredictable freelance clients as a result.

I also renovated my house and began overcoming a lifelong phobia while realizing hidden aspects of my identity. Life continues to be a challenge, but I see warm bright sunshine ahead.

These successes gave me an idea on how to realize my health goals: I started an exercise challenge Facebook group and invited everyone I knew. Membership included people who’ve known me since we were children to people I met just a few months ago.

The objective of the group was to support each other in our own exercise goals, and the only requirement was for everyone to know at least one person already in the group. Starting out, that was me, but others joined at friends’ invitations.

Step 3: Share

Two sets of feet in hiking boots relax side by side with a view of forested mountains in the distance.
Photo by Noel Ross from Pexels

My personal challenge was to get 30 minutes of exercise every day in January. Other people focused on walking every day or running a few times a week. Many friends were doing the 30-day Move Yoga Journey via YouTube’s Yoga with Adriene.

Each day, we posted whatever physical movement we had accomplished and then supported others’ posts as well. People from all over North America checked in at least once a day to motivate and recognize each other’s struggles and achievements.

We also got to know each other through photos: one person filmed herself ice skating in her backyard, er, rink; others posted bike ride photos along the beach; and still others offered glimpses of hills, swamps, and deserts.

We shared music playlists, soup recipes, healthy eating habits, and even added dry January and a sleep challenge to the mix.

Step 4: Persevere

A few small green leaves grow out from ground covered in stones.
Photo by freestocks.org from Pexels

At present the group has over 50 members with a core group of about 12–15 posting regularly. Many others are lurkers taking encouragement from the positive posts and comments from frequent conversationalists.

As far as my challenge goes, I managed to get at least 30 minutes of exercise every day in January. I and others marveled at the simple magic of motivation and accountability.

Motivation came from the confidence others had in us to persevere. And accountability came from our own commitment to avoid letting down the group.

And when someone fell and missed a challenge goal, we all lifted them back up with “you got this!” and “we’re here for you!” Covid and other winter illnesses made a couple of appearances, but the recovered came back with determination accompanied with love and support in the group.

A Commitment to Continue

As the group continues into its second month, we all have expressed a commitment to continue the challenge and keep moving. More members join each week and are welcomed with heartfelt congratulations for setting a goal for good health. Motivation and accountability persevere.

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Speak Up: The Power of Language

2021-09-29
A woman attempts to speak up using a megaphone
Speak up!
Photo by Andrea Piacquadio from Pexels

I’ve always had a quiet voice. I don’t naturally speak loudly and have to make a conscious effort to speak up.

As a kid making a presentation or asking a question in class, I had to contend with other students in the room being encouraged by the teacher to ask me to “speak up.” However, the teacher did not always instruct my classmates to make the request politely or respectfully.

I wouldn’t have gotten more than two words out when a booming voice of one my peers would interrupt me to demand that I “SPEAK UP!” It was as if they were accusing me of deliberately forcing them to yell at me.

Language is complicated.

A simple juxtaposition like that made up of “speak” and “up” can carry important meaning to the receiver. What other two-word phrases carry such power? Shut up, catch up, get up, keep up. (I’m cherry picking here and deliberately selecting phrases with “up” in them for artistic license.)

The point is that these can come off as rudely demanding phrases even when they are meant to help. “Shut up” is obviously quite rude, but in the appropriate context, the rest of them can be off-putting as well.

On the other hand, I don’t advocate for tiptoeing around the language and living in fear that someone will cancel me if I use a common expression. If I unintentionally upset someone, I should be able to simply apologize — with sincerity, of course—and have that be it.

Language is loud?

As an adult, more things roll off my back and especially as a middle-aged adult. I’m not as bothered by little things anymore, but I still hesitate to make requests that require me to speak up beyond my general level of comfort.

These days I usually find some roundabout way to get someone’s attention. If I can make eye contact, I wait until the other person is within a decent proximity before speaking as loudly while still politely as I can. I usually have to repeat myself.

A man has to speak up when giving an order at a busy lunch counter.
I like the convenience of lunch counters—no need to flag anyone down.
Photo by Elina Sazonova from Pexels

Now that I think about it, I can’t remember the last time anyone actually said “speak up” to me. Have I successfully avoided such a scenario, or are people just more polite? Or is it just kids that are cruel?

Language is communicative.

I recently had a conversation with my neighbor who has no problem speaking up, whether grabbing my attention across the driveway or raising important issues at the monthly HOA meetings.

Speaking of HOA meetings, she has been trying to get me to go to those again. I went once and did not relish the experience of sitting in a hot packed room with a mask on (because pandemic) while trying to pay attention to the echoing voices because the community conference room has terrible acoustics.

An analog clock on a concrete wall
Tick tock, tick tock.
Photo by Shawn Stutzman from Pexels

It’s not hard to speak up there, but it’s hard to comprehend or feign interest in a three-hour meeting about proper tree irrigation and door colors. Yeah, you read that right … three hours!

Anyway, I’d been avoiding talking to her about these meetings, but that day I gathered my courage and managed to speak up about how I didn’t particularly care for the meetings and didn’t see much point. We exchanged arguments politely and went on our merry ways.

Not once did she ask me to speak up. I am thinking about giving the meetings one more chance, though.

Language is powerful!

Speaking up can also be hard when you’re not used to the sound of your own voice. I read recently that our voices sound much richer to ourselves and so that’s why we’re so disappointed when we hear our voices on recordings. It’s just never as good as we think it is.

I have published a couple online courses and am working on a third to hopefully launch in November. It was hard for me to edit the audio of these courses at first. The sound of my own voice was grating. I thought I sounded like a little kid, and it brought back some of those anxious memories.

However, after launching the second course, a freelancing colleague commented that I had a pleasant and clear voice that was easy to listen to. I then played one of the lessons back and heard myself in a new light, er, soundwave.

I guess the power of language can only be acknowledged when one appropriately speaks up.


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